2) Never insult her, even if you’re joking. She’ll start to get annoyed with you, and when a girl has made up her mind, she isn’t coming back.

3) Don’t be overly protective. Girls like it when their guys are protective, but not to the point where you are the only guy in their lives.

4) Call her just to talk and hear her voice. Even if you call her at three in th morning, she may seem annoyed, but she really loves to know you care enough. Tell her something sweet, she’ll love you for it.

5) Listen to her. In contrast to what you may think, most girls prefer nice guys over bad boys. If she feels like she’s just a decoration, it’s over.

6) Chances are some of her past relationships weren’t that great. Don’t add on to the list. If you are attracted to a girl as just a rebound or arm candy, spare her the heart break.

7) Don’t flirt with other girls to make her jealous. Chances are she’ll think you’re not interested and move on to new territory.

Get her presents on special occasions. It doesn’t have to be jewlery or chocolate. It’s not the fact you got her a nice present. All she cares about is that you cared enough to remember.

9) Do little things whenever you have the chance. Girls love it when you do little things to make her happy. It will make her day, and it won’t cost you but a second. Do things like leaning over her shoulder to take a sip out of her drink or hug her for no reason.

10) If you love her, TELL HER! If you’ve been in a long relationship and she doesn’t hear those three words, she will think something is wrong. Don’t be afraid of rejection. If you’re already in a relationship with a girl, chances are you’re her entire world. She deserves to hear it from you.

11) Don’t pretend to be something. You’ll only succeed in breaking her heart when she finds out you’ve been lying to her the entire time. If she’s the one, she will like you for you.

12) Be tasteful. Don’t make comments that will make her feel uncomfortable. She’ll think you’re only in it for one thing, and it’s not what she wants.

That’s all i have for you…but here’s something that will help you further:

31 Ways to Make a Girl Smile

1. Tell her she’s BEAUTIFUL. Not hot or ***y.

2. Hold her hand, just because you love her.

3. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

4. Wrestle with her, and let her win.

5. Hug her from behind.

6. Don’t hang out with your ex when she’s not around. It kills her inside.

7. If you talk to another girl, walk over to her after you’re done and kiss her.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say I love you.

9. Introduce her to your friends, as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up, even when she says no.

12. Get upset if she gets unwanted contact from someone else.

13. Make her laugh, just because you love to see her smile.

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her, don’t fight back.

16. If you care about her, tell her, or else she won’t come back.

17. Every girl should receive three presents from her guy: a teddy bear (she’ll hug it when she goes to sleep), jewlery (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of your shirts (she’ll wear it to bed).

18. Treat her the same with your friends as when you are alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and give her your best smile.

20. Hang out with her on the weekends, because she’s important to you.

21. Kiss her in the rain, without an umbrella.

22. Kiss her just to let her know you care.

23. If you’re listening to music, give her the other headphone.

24. Remember her birthday and get her something. Even if it is simple and inexpensive, it came from you. It will mean the world to her.

25. If she gets you a present on whatever occasion, tell her you love it, even if you don’t, just to make her happy.

26. Always call her when you say you will. Failing to do so will break her heart. We love hearing your voice, even if only for a minute.

27. Give her what she wants, but don’t smother her.

28. Recognize the small things. They mean the most.

29. Don’t hug other girls before her.

30. Spend your free time with her. She will love you for it.

31. If you care her, don’t just talk about it, show her.

Online Dating Tips

There are some men and women who find out that “hitting the clubs” and setting up blind dates with their friends just is not for them. Dating success can be hard to achieve in real life, and on the internet. If you are someone who is focusing more on the online dating services there are a lot of guide lines and rules that you should follow. When using online dating services, there are a whole new batch of potential consequences and dangers – all of which are good to be aware of.
There are a lot of things someone should think about when setting up their public profile on a website. It is true you want people to know a lot of stuff about you so you can find success quicker, but every last bit of information open to the public can be used against you as well. Only put what you want people to see. Of course, during the more preliminary stages of sign up – there me be more private questions that are not open to the public. These are okay to answer truthfully, as it will make it easier to match you with someone. Basically, the two things you want to focus on for success are: security and popularity.

Find Your Own Reality

You want to feel secure on a dating website. You are planning on meeting real people in the flesh. These are people you have most likely never seen, or talked to before. You have no idea what they really look like – as profile pictures could be easily faked online. It is a good idea to keep a steady relationship online for a little while before actually meeting. Someone’s online persona can be a lot different than their actual self so you are going to have to pay close attention to what they are like and decide for yourself if they seem suspicious. Be careful what kind of information you reveal during online chats and instant messaging as well. It is probably best never to mention an address until you have met at least once. Online dating scams are not incredibly common, but they can happen. So it is very important to stay wary of your security, if you really want to be successful with online dating.

Security is a wonderful thing to keep in mind, but you are not going to have any dating success without a popular, and successful dating website. It is real easy to do a quick search and find out which sites have reliable services and can get you the results you want. Read some testimonials, ask around – hear from people who have actually used the site and know that it works. If no one has ever heard of the site before or you can not find any statistics on it; it may be better to stray away from it and find a more popular website. With a popular dating website, you know you are going to find lots of people. The more people an online dating website has, the higher rating for success you will have. Check out the services that each website offers. A lot of online dating services have a lot of the same features for members, but if you find a site different from the others, it may be worth looking into. There are a lot of big name dating services out there, so you know you are pretty much protected by using them. Being safe and using well known, successful sites will certainly lead you to your own online dating success.

Turnoff #1: Flakiness

Guys report that one of the biggest turnoffs when dating a woman is when she either can’t commit to plans or constantly flakes on plans.  If you regularly pencil in your plans with a “maybe” and/or cancel plans at the last minute, you’re giving your guy the impression that he’s tentative in your life, aka “good enough for now.”  Who wants to date someone who makes them feel temporary?  Chances are you don’t, and you shouldn’t be the girl who makes her date feel that way either.

Turnoff #2: Poor communication skills
Raise your hand if you’ve been this girl in your relationship past: your date/boyfriend said or did something you didn’t like, but instead of saying anything, you went along with it.  You may have even said it was “fine.”  But then at some point down the road, you got upset.  Maybe you even blew up at an inappropriate time, causing an argument that completely took your significant other off guard.  Most of us have been guilty of passive aggressive behavior at least once in our dating past.  It happens.  But when you repeat that kind of behavior over and over in any dating/relationship scenario, the only thing you’ll succeed at is sabotaging your efforts.  Just as you deserve to be with someone who’s comfortable communicating his wants, needs, and desires, you, too, should be a healthy communicator.  Don’t say one thing if you really mean another.  Instead, get in the habit of saying what you mean.  Guys appreciate that!

Turnoff #3: Not playing fair
From your initial encounter to your first date and beyond, guys pay attention to whether or not you’re playing fair.  If, for example, you always expect the guy to come to your side of town, pick you up, open your door, pay the check, drop you off, call you the next day, and in general placate your every need without you so much as lifting a finger, you’re not dating fairly.  More important, if there’s a disagreement and you don’t fight fairly, i.e., you throw things in his face, hold grudges, and insist on winning every argument, you’re going to be a very lonely single girl because you’re not being fair.  In the new millennium, chivalry goes both ways and the dating game requires plenty of give-and-take.  If you can be fair in dating times both good and bad, guys will dig you so much more!

Turnoff #4: Trying to change him
It’s almost cliché how often in the media we see, hear, or read about a woman who tries to change her man.  Whether it’s changing how he dresses, what he watches on TV, his manners, or his friends, the woman at the helm of all this change always comes off as a control freak.  Don’t be that girl.  Just as the guy in your life should accept you warts and all, you, too, should accept him for who he is.  And if you can’t?  Don’t date him.  It’s as simple as that.  The whole point of being single and dating is to meet a variety of different people, find out who you are as well as who your perfect partner might be, and eventually settle down with someone who’s right for you.  Rather than trying to change the wrong guy into Mr. Right, why not keep playing the field until you meet that special someone who’s far from perfect but whose imperfections you have no desire to change?  (He’s out there — keep looking!)

Turnoff #5: Ultimatums
Nothing turns a man off more than a woman who gives him an ultimatum.  Not only are they not sexy, they’re ineffective.  Healthy and happy relationships don’t need ultimatums.  When you’re regularly communicating your needs to the person you’re in a relationship with, ultimatums are unnecessary.  It’s when communication breaks down, when one person feels his or her needs aren’t being met, or when the relationship isn’t going in the direction one had hoped or at the speed one had anticipated, that ultimatums are usually issued.  A huge turn-off, ultimatums are a tricky relationship tactic and should be avoided at all costs.

So there you have it — the top five male turnoffs.  By understanding the dating and mating behaviors that shut men down, you ultimately master the art of how to turn the right guy on.  Good luck and happy dating!

“Then I guess we shouldn’t be dating!”

You wouldn’t tell your boss you’re quitting your job unless you meant it, would you? But sometimes, in a relationship, people are tempted to pull out the nuclear option just to get the other person off their backs: “If you don’t like the way I season veal, then you’ll never understand me! We should just break up!”

Save breakup talk for when you truly want to end a relationship, not as a rhetorical weapon. Otherwise, you risk your match taking you up on the offer and leaving you crying over steak for one.

“Why can’t you be more/less like my ex?”

We all have exes that have taught us what we do and don’t like in relationships. But the person you’re with now wants to feel special, not like the sequel to a bad romantic comedy. Don’t make it sound as though you’re still hung up on the past. Tell your current love specifically how you feel and what you want, but in the context of the present.

“I’m just too tired from working all day to help you with that.”

Of course, you’re not lying – you probably did get exhausted from rushing around and dealing with your boss all day. But in the modern era, when most men and women have taxing jobs outside the home, this is the lamest excuse in the book. Remember, the man or woman you love is probably as exhausted as you, and even if they’re not, they shouldn’t have to pick up your dirty socks, move a couch by themselves, or take the kids to lacrosse practice just because you did a little work. If you’re really tired, ask to trade or defer chores. Or better yet, just do whatever it is eagerly and quickly, so you can have time to relax and enjoy each other’s company.

“Let’s go grave digging!”

Have you ever complained to your loved one that they forgot to do something, and instead of apologizing they brought up something slightly similar that you once did? Everyone makes mistakes, but small infractions done long ago are not hooks to hang your hat on when you want to avoid blame for something you’re doing in the present. “You forgot to feed the dog five years ago!” is no excuse for forgetting to feed the cat today, and bringing up past transgressions simply leads to an escalation of blame and hurt.

“Do as I say, not as I do!”

It’s hard to come home and find that the kitchen is a mess, but… when was the last time you took out the garbage? If you’re going to criticize your spouse or your girlfriend or boyfriend for something they’re neglecting to do, it had better be something you do fairly consistently. Otherwise you’ll come off as a nag who wants the rest of the world to get busy while you put your feet up.

“You’re a lousy lover!”

You were hoping for fireworks – but your sweetie is a sparkler at best. Though you may be frustrated, the worst thing you can do in the moment is to ridicule or insult the person you love for their romantic performance. In intimate situations, when a person is sharing a very private and special part of themselves with you, they are at their most vulnerable, so angry words take on an especially hurtful tone.

If you want to heat things up, positive reinforcement yields better results than angry criticism. “I’d love it if we could stay in this position” works a lot better than “You never stop squirming!” Being a bully in bed might make your beau yearn for someone a little less romantically selfish.

“You knew I was this way when you met me!”

On the one hand, it’s not a good idea to get into a relationship with the intention of changing who someone is. But on the other hand, people naturally change as they grow older, often getting better at time management, financial planning, and social interactions. If one of you is growing and changing and the other is staying stagnant, that’s a big problem. Claiming that you’re allowed to go drinking every night or leave the toilet seat up because that’s what you did when the two of you started dating is effectively saying “I will never grow or change, so don’t invest any hopes in me.”

Rather than freezing your personality in time, address the issue at hand. Come to the table with some things you feel you can change. Then give logical, personal reasons why you prefer to stay the same about other things.

“No comment.”

With all the relationship-killing things you can say, it may be tempting to say nothing at all. But talking and interacting with the other person is your principal job in a relationship!

If you’re not truly listening to your partner, and not expressing yourself – if you’re always saying “fine” or “no problem” – then your issues will never work their way toward resolution, and your partner won’t be able to feel close to you. If you stifle conversation, you’ll suffocate intimacy as well, and soon find your relationship breathing its last gasps.

These are all good things to avoid saying when speaking to a spouse, a boyfriend or girlfriend, or even someone you’re just beginning to date. Are there some stock phrases you’ve said, or been told, that eventually led to a breakup? Let us know if there’s a phrase that rubs you the wrong way. And let us know if you’ve found some good alternatives to these phrases, to enhance the conversation and lead to greater closeness

But you got through it! The first date was a smashing success and now you can get on with the dating process. Or can you…

It’s still a tricky time in a growing relationship. The first date certainly isn’t enough to tell if you’re good together. You’ll need more. So, how does one proceed after that first date and make arrangements for future dates?

We’ll look at a couple of ways that might help you secure a second date.

The Three-Day Rule:
I’m sure you’ve heard about this on the TV and in books, etc, but don’t buy it. The three-day rule says you should always wait three days before calling someone when you get their number or even contacting them after a date. Well, you know who uses this rule? The dateless!

You want to contact your date the day after, especially if you’re a guy. Now, you don’t want to be too forward. Don’t ask for a second date. Instead, tell her what a great time you had. Text messaging works fantastically well for this! Just say how great you thought it was and leave a little smile.

The Stinky Cologne:
Do not, under any circumstances, come across as desperate. Just stop it. There’s no sense in it. You don’t need to contact this person and tell them how much you need them, or especially something cheesy like the “you complete me” thing.

Also, don’t seem desperate for a second date. The next time you talk, you can broach the topic of seeing each other again, but don’t grovel on it. There’s a big difference in wanting to see someone again and needing it. You need to come across like the former.

The Changeling:
It’s perfectly okay to let that successful first date change your outlook of the potential relationship, but it’s not such a good idea to let it change you as a person. You don’t want to come across as too familiar, and you certainly don’t want to start acting a fool in front of this person like it’s all sewn up.

The date happened and now it’s over. The idea is to let this act like a building block of the relationship, not a stepping stone for your ego. Be the same person.

The Socialist:
Remember this: The first date does not entitle you to a second date in any way. Far too often people begin to act as if a successful first date means that the other person has no choice in accepting a second.

This can be a disastrous move for you. Don’t be a dirty commie. You can only speak for yourself and have no real say over whether or not the other person will be seeing you again. If you take this for granted and expect a second date to be a given, you’ll find yourself back to square one.

Regardless it’s still crucial to look attractive and not act like a complete fool. It really depends on the situation and your surroundings. It may be hard to be yourself if you are having dinner with your date’s family. On-the-other-hand if you are hanging out with friends you can really show a woman what you are like. Once you get to that point, which direction should you take though? Do you woo your date with kind words and talk about each other and then eventually drop her off at home – knowing you can slowly advance the relationship with each date? Or, do you resort to strictly passion and try to take hold of the girl’s heart immediately with “the moves?” A lot of women are looking for something different in a man, for sure. It is just hard to figure out how to present that outlying factor in yourself that can show a woman you are different from other men. Normally, it would be by keeping a stable, secure, and trustful relationship with them for a couple of months. That might not be good enough though. She may have been expecting something completely different. Perhaps she has had it with the false security men give when they immediately start dating. If you act like too much of a “nice guy” you may end up in a relationship quite different than you imagined. Right when you think it’s time to get serious she may want to stay “just friends” No man wants to be presented with that situation.

It is very easy to avoid such a problem though. You may think security should come first in a relationship before anything else – but too much of that can smother the relationship and give it a stale, boring feeling. If you can’t get a new relationship off to a good start – it will never work in the end. Concentrate on passion and let things play out from there. Don’t be predictable. Surprise her and show her some kind of excitement. That is a good way to get closer. Most women are looking for excitement in their relationships to begin with. They don’t want to go out to eat thirty times and then exchange in a small kiss a couple of months into the relationship (If it even lasted that long). That is only showing her that you are scared to open up and too concerned with security at such an early stage in the relationship. It is understandable for people who may have had dating problems in the past and would not want to be emotionally injured again – but it’s a good thing to think about. Security is a long term thing. That is all there is to it. Begin the relationship with a sort of passion and unpredictability and then work into the long term security that the relationship needs to stay together. Do not worry about making your date sure that the relationship will last forever because it is impossible to know such information. Just begin by expressing your love and attractiveness for her. Things will tend to change when your relationship becomes more secure – and it will change for the better. You just have to give it time. Make the right decisions when you enter a relationship and be sure of what your date is actually looking for.

  What could possibly even present that much of a problem to our inner equilibrium though? Perhaps a fresh or old relationship break up. One of the hardest things to comprehend or move on from is a break up, depending on how powerful or successful the relationship was in the past. Be it a boyfriend+girlfriend or a husband+wife – Both couples have the potential to experience a break up. They may not be permanent, but it is really impossible to tell at first. The only thing you should really be concentrating on is ‘moving on.’ How hard can that be? Well, it can be a very painless process if you know how to deal with it correctly.

  First of all, get anything relative to the relationship away and try to keep your thoughts on positive things. If you are surrounded by old memories and filled with sorrowful emotions, just try to push them aside. If you are feeling unsatisfied about things you may have said – it’s better to hold onto unsaid words. Just constantly arguing with your ex will only make things more tense and damaged. It may be beneficial to isolate yourself from people for a little while, so you can think things through and finally regain your smile. The long and short of it is, sadness gets boring after a while. Thus, you can’t be sad forever. People tend to be clingy with broken relationships though. One person may stay attached for months after the break up. This is an awful thing to do. Your days will consist of the same thing for months: Getting up, moping around, most likely texting/calling your ex and whining to them for a while, then sleeping. Little variety. Little happiness. When you finally get over the break up you will realize it has been months since you have been happy, then you will realize how much time you wasted moping around the last couple months. It is not worth it.

  It’s extremely important to think about your self worth in a time like a break up. You are still the same person you were before. You still have the same brain, heart, and lungs. You may have suffered emotionally, but that can usually be easily healed. If you couldn’t get along with this person well enough to hold a relationship – then they are not the perfect person for you. They may be close to it – but there is someone better in the world. The wound on your heart may last a long time but someone will be there to put a bandage on it for you. Tell yourself each morning that you are still the same person and can be an even better person now. Don’t be bitter or sulky for the rest of your life. It is okay to cry – but not in a repetitive day by day sequence. The one thing that most people need to do but don’t, is just – Think first with your head; then with your heart.

The first tip concerns your attitude towards a woman. A lot of men are convinced that being extremely nice to a girl will immediately win over their hearts. This is definitely not true. You are not going to make a women attracted to you by opening every door in their way for them, and by buying them a whole new wardrobe. Now, by standard rules, you should always be polite to a lady. It is just not healthy in an early relationship to overdo it. If you stifle her on the first few dates with a constant flourish of kind words, plenty of buys, and a gentlemanly charm; then you risk letting the relationship get stale. If that happens, the girl may just stop answering your calls and avoid you completely. Give each other some space on the first series of dates. If there is true love in the making, both of you will feel it. Being a complete ‘nice guy’ won’t create this love that you desire.

Once again, don’t immediately start buying hundreds of gifts for your new girlfriend. It generally will only come off as a method to impress her and try and win over her affection with all of your money. That will not increase a woman’s attraction to you. If anything, it will only annoy her. If a female is attracted to you as you are; then you should not have to buy her gifts to reinforce that, or try to change yourself by acting like a different person. Make sure you are always completely real with your girlfriend, at least, until you are on good enough terms to just mess around. Do not blatantly strut your logic or physique or do anything that would try and convince a girl to be attracted to you. You should not have to force things that will come naturally. Always be yourself for starters.

Make sure you let the relationship do a little advancing on its own, before you decide to spice it up or add a little to it yourself. It may be foolish to let a girl know how you feel about her too early in a relationship. If you ‘jump-the-gun’ then you may find yourself ‘dumped.’ Thrusting your feelings on a girl you have only known for 3 weeks will most likely just scare her away. Before saying anything too serious, you should probably be sure that your partner feels the same way about you. Most guys know when the time is right.

Women are not that tough to get to know. It is just a matter of learning how to react in every situation – intelligently and responsibly. You have to know what a woman wants, and what she does not want. It is not going to take the money and looks alone. Your personality will be the number one thing that makes a girl feel the attraction. When she feels it, and you feel it; the spark is made. Once the spark is made, you can really open up in a relationship, and finally stop worrying about all there is to know about women, because you most likely have it all figured out by then.

Of course you have.

Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. 

What’s going on here?

It’s actually very simple…

Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she’s just not interested?

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.
Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I’m going to blow your mind…
A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That’s ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

 -By David DeAngelo, Author Of Double Your Dating